It has always been a perplexed discussion among parents when it comes to dealing with young adults. Unsure of the right way to deal with them can sometimes leave them desperate and concerned; it is thus obvious for parents to seek expert opinion from countless articles from the internet. It is also the reason you are here reading this article. Here is a list of obvious question parents often ask. Why are teenagers strange? Why are they stubborn? Why are they too desperate to grow old? How to help my troubled teen? And significantly, How to deal with teenagers?

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To begin finding answers to that list of questions, one must ask this first,” Who is a typical teenager?”A teenager is not just a random group of youngsters from 13-19 years of age. They are little people transitioning from a being a child to a young adult; This is the crucial stage of their life because of the very nature of its delicateness. It is at this age they begin assuming roles of a more serious part of their lives. Their boundaries of freedom they once adapted and were allowed to explore, have suddenly suffered a space crunch. The actual driving force of a teenager is the daringness to explore life in a wider perspective driven by the need for space.  However, stopping them isn’t a viable option; because there are pros and cons to this stage of development one must pay particular attention being a parent. It is the possible recklessness of their way of dealing with life that makes them a “risk group.” And with no second thought parents often deny to most of their teens request. However, rejection isn’t an acceptable option for most young adults. They may rebel, and some may even project extreme response in protest. Hence, instead of dealing this behavior with a harsher response, exercise patience and be a good listener, which is often a message to them, that you do pay attention to their opinion. But,”Should I agree to all their requests?” No, but there is always a provision to decide if their needs are to be obliged or not after judging their importance. So listen to them, and if there is a justification for their needs, then you can acknowledge. Else instead of declaring a blatant denial, tell them why exactly they cannot have their requirements obliged by explaining the facts. If not many, some teens may weigh facts and may accept the denial without contesting.

The most important fact to remember for parents are being a teen doesn’t mean they can be naturally branded as the reckless youth because a lot of factors influence a teen’s behavior. Everything, from the environment he is being raised and his peers. Often the latter is the influence upon a teen’s behavior. They would influence his choice of clothing, lifestyle. Be watchful of your teen if u sense him being aloof. It may indicate a lot of underlying issues in his life. Relationships are another thing your teen begins to experience at his age. So don’t be alarmed if you discover your teen is has a crush. This behavior is normal, and he should be allowed to have his share of secrets. So it is important not to intrude into his personal life to poke out all his secrets else he may distance himself from you and may not trust you. A teenager isn’t always a frat boy material. As a parent, if undivided attention is being given to them, along with teaching them the virtues of life, they will surely grow into a mature and more conspicuous individual.

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Tips For Parenting Teens   


Do Not BE Over Protective

It is agreeable that children will always remain their parents dearest irrespective of their age. But it is important to realize that they cannot be forever young. They too seek some privacy as they grow, similar to adults. Do not discourage them from taking risks at all. When they show the determination to take smaller risks in their lives, ask them how they are going to do it, because when you show signs of support and interest, they will surely be more liberal about of their discussions.

If You Are Having Mood Swings Do Not Be Tempted To Show It On Your Teen

Often, it is the most significant detail most parents ignore; remember it is most teenagers quality to be rebellious. Hence, if a parent shows their aggression from the context of their personal lives upon their teens, they will not hesitate to contest equally. And once the bait is taken, they will develop relationship issues with parents. Often arguing and bickering. Hence, make sure when dealing with your teens problems, your personal issues must not influence the conversation.

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Communicate With Your Teen Personally, He May be Have Been A Silent Victim.  

Teenagers with parents interacting with them often grow into a mature well disciplined individual. The purpose of having a good communication with your teens is you will be alerted if he is being influenced by any unwanted elements in his life. For instance, a troubled teen would often show symptoms of being over secretive, stressed, and worse he may be subject to drug abuse or being suicidal due to bullying. Hence, it is important to pay attention if your teen is struggling with dark events in his personal lives. They would often hesitate to speak about this concern until the parents reassure them with confidence to solicit the details that affect them.

Not All Teens Are Frat boys; Do Not Brush Away Their Opinions

Do not take your teen’s opinion lightly. It is the most common mistake most parents commit. They automatically believe everything a teenager says will be a waste of effort to pay attention and would often relate their slightest failures to their age and calling them irresponsible. However, it is important to note, that motivation plays a significant role in a parent-teen relationship. If a teen’s opinion and objectives are brushed away with no regard for their importance, teenagers will respond by not wanting to pay attention to their parents in return. It is the actual reason arguments and tiffs exist between parents and adolescents. Hence, make sure respect is mutual.

Do note, everybody has a story, and listening is often the best method to make any story simple.